The Cycle of Comfort Part 2
Last week's comments on this topic were so thought provoking! I hope you take a moment to read them. Perhaps many of you are also tired of Lie #1 as listed in Matthew West's Truth Be Told?
Lie #1: "You're supposed to have it all together. When they ask how your are say, 'Never better.' "
To be even more transparent, "Truth be told", I was also thinking about social media and the perfect lives presented. (A quick image search on "social media vs. reality" illustrates my point.) Let's remember that no one's life is perfect - not even mine.
Which leads us to...
Lie #2: "Everybody's life is perfect except yours, so keep your messes and your wounds and your secrets safe with you behind closed doors"
A lady at my church started a ministry to mentor the younger ladies. She made a good point which I'll paraphrase:
"At church, many of the younger ladies may see some of us 'more mature' ladies with our perfect (ahem) lives at church, not realizing the pain and trials the Lord has helped us overcome! Let's be real with them and share our experiences and, more importantly, how the LORD has seen us through!"
I know through personal experience this is true. Years ago as I was ministering to a young lady from church, she responded, "That's easy for you to say! Just look at your perfect life, your perfect husband, your perfect kids!" Oh my dear, sweet lady, if only you knew the truth.
So, I decided then and there to become vulnerable and transparent: I shared my testimony.
Needless to say, she was shocked at all the "imperfection" in my life - past and present.
As we turn to Abba Father during our trials, our pain, our sicknesses, He comforts us! Why?
So that we in turn can comfort others!
Throughout the years, I've realized that if, during times of tribulation, I can focus on the comfort offered by my LORD and Savior, I have hope.
Certainly, there are times when I simply weep and thrash through my pain and confusion. Eventually, as I receive the comfort offered the LORD, peace enters my soul and I am able to begin learning from Him and, more essentially, am able to comfort others via His comfort.
So, regardless of your trial, you are not alone: someone else has walked your path.
Let us share our realness and God's immense grace and strength - the person described in the previous lines may need you more than you know.
BOOK DATE
Mary Alice and I are continuing our book club on Arsenic and Adobo, though, admittedly I fell behind.
July: The Invisible Husband of Frick Island by Colleen Oakley
August: In A Book Club Far Away by Tif Marcelo
September: The Midnight Library by Addie LaRue
October: The Invisible Life of Addie LaRue by V. E. Schwab
Nov-Dec: The Ghost and the Christmas Spirit by Bobbi Holmes
STASH REPORT
Yarny numbers
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Yarn/Project |
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Ounces In |
Ounces Out |
Net |
6/6/2021 |
Dish Cloths |
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2 |
2 |
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JuneTotals |
0 |
2 |
2 |
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Annual Totals |
124 |
72 |
-52 |
I also made this little panel quilt! For the first time ever, I quilted my own quilt and made a quilt in a day! Yea!
My fabric numbers are definitely looking good!
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Project/Type |
Yardage In |
Yardage Out |
Net |
6/6/2021 |
Gecko Quilt |
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13.77 |
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Nursery Rhyme Quilt |
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2.5 |
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JUNE
TOTALS |
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16.27 |
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ANNUAL
TOTALS |
25.692 |
48.38 |
22.688 |
This is an old school recipe my family still loves - papas, cebolla y bologna! |
This little cactus bowl has a few baby blooms on it! I'll keep checking on it during my walks. |
Chico loves going for a ride! |
This little plant is such a survivor! We thought he was a goner, but he surprised us! |
My sister brought me this lovely bouquet of flowers! |
This is the first time Kitty gazes out of our front door. |
Here's a before the pen look at my journal. |
Here's a close up of the sticker on that page. This quote is so very true. It's ok to walk away from toxic people. |
This is a picture of the same cactus. |
It's all a matter of perspective. |
I Like @ Not Afraid of Color (Thursday)
ENjoy stitching your prayer shawl today... such a beautiful colour!
ReplyDeleteI love "The Giver" with so many interesting things to think about!
Wouldn't it be wonderful if we could be real with others and find comfort and compassion.
ReplyDeleteLove the gecko quilt! The serpentine stitch is a game changer for quilting without straight lines. It always looks good. Picked up on that watching Pat Sloan.
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful and truthful song!
ReplyDeleteI've always be pretty honest and open, but becoming chronically ill 19 years ago really made me live a transparent life. I just don't have the energy for pretending to be perfect! I agree - a very thought-provoking song.
Your reading plans sound great! My husband recently read Camino Winds (didn't realize Camino Island came first!). And I read both The Midnight Library and Addie LaRue at the end of last year and enjoyed both very much - lots of good books for you to look forward to!
Sue
2021 Big Book Summer Challenge
We all have a story to tell; vulnerable stories to help each other. Your Gecko quilt is a beautiful finish, and love your sweet Nursery Rhyme quilt, too. Sweet photo of Kitty looking out the door.
ReplyDeleteCompassion and comfort truly are like a healing balm and so easy to receive. And, a great feeling to pass it along to others.
ReplyDeleteGreat finishes, and love the color of your prayer shawl! Hope you have a great week!
ReplyDeleteGreat finish on your Gecko quilt!
ReplyDeleteLovely quilt! Looks like you are getting things done! Thanks for linking up with To-Do Tuesday!
ReplyDeleteI'll have to check out those books. Always looking for a good book to listen to or read. I agree - so many 'perfect' lives depicted when truly everyone has hardships and things they are dealing with. I hope you have a peaceful week.
ReplyDeleteThe gecko quilt is just great! I put the Sonia Sotomayor book on my list at the library. Thanks for the recommendation!
ReplyDeleteYou finished the Gecko quilt, and it looks great! I agree that being open and honest is so much more helpful for us as we walk this life together. Thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteLove the gecko quilt. Really nice. This month I am working on all the quilt tops I fired up on the wardrobe shelf and ignored. It feels good to be furthering them along - sometimes guilt needs to be listened to and acted on! Great pics for your future book club. I have In a Book Club Far Away on the library reserve list so will have it some time in the future. I think its a debut novel as far as I remember.
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