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Psalm 23:5, Literary Life, Finding Joy

Saturday, October 3, 2026

Yikes! My hands want to retire! Psalm 16:5, Fiber Fun, Literary Living

 Hello There!
    Welcome back! Thank you so much for dropping in.  This week was a bit unusual because I actually spent way more time at my cutting table and at the sewing machine than doing handwork. Normally, my hands are happy to give me a couple of hours of slow stitching every day. Lately, though? There’s been a full-blown rebellion! 
    My hands have officially informed me that three factors are causing pain:  
1.  The Weather: It’s been raining nearly every day for two weeks. All this humidity has my joints demanding a part-time schedule.
2.  Seniority: After years of slow stitching every single day, maybe my hands are wanting semi-retirement.
3.  Extracurriculars: Between stitching, crocheting, writing handwritten cards to family and friends, and typing at the computer, they are tired.
    Change is definitely coming. I’m going to need to rethink my slow stitching goals, my timelines, and how I can improve my hands' health.  They are, after all, one of my most valuable tools.  Over the last two weeks, I've rested them and been very cognicent of  how long I slow stitch.  These hands of mine have thoroughly enjoyed their custom spa treatment—CBD salves, Voltaren, and warm-water workouts every time we hand-wash dishes!
    However, this is going to be a journey in finding a balance and the best way to take care of these precious hands of mine. If you would be so kind as to share your thoughts, any favorite tips or hand-soothing tricks, in the comments!  My hands and I thank you in advance for sharing your experience.

Take good care and, as Daddy used to say, 
"Make memories; it's later than you think."

HERE'S A WORD
As I prepped for this study, I simply highlight all the words that describe what God does for us in my Bible and make a list of them in my journal.  I'll follow the same format here. 

The Presence of the LORD

A Miktama of David.
1 Preserve me, O God,
for in You I take refuge.
2I said to the LORD, “You are my Lord;
apart from You I have no good thing.”
3As for the saints in the land,
they are the excellence
in whom all my delight resides.
4 Sorrows will multiply
to those who chase other gods.
I will not pour out their libations of blood,
or speak their names with my lips.
5 The LORD is my chosen portion and my cup;
You have made my lot secure.
6The lines of my boundary have fallen in pleasant places;
surely my inheritance is delightful.
7I will bless the LORD who counsels me;
even at night my conscience instructs me.b
8I have setc the LORD always before me.
Because He is at my right hand, I will not be shaken.
9Therefore my heart is glad and my tongue rejoices;
my body also will dwell securely.d
10For You will not abandon my soul to Sheol,
nor will You let Your Holy One see decay.e
11You have made known to me the path of life;
You will fill me with joy in Your presence,f
with eternal pleasures at Your right hand.
-        Psalm 16


    As I sat down to study for today’s devotion, three questions kept circling in my mind:
 What is my cup? 
What is my lot? 
And what’s the difference between the two? 

    As I dug into my NIV Bible study notes as well as online references, I found much fascinating discussion about the symbolism of the 'cup' throughout Scripture. While a full deep-dive into biblical symbolism is definitely beyond what I set out to write today, I encourage you to read up on it if you get the chance—it's a great rabbit hole!
    Looking at both Webster’s dictionary and the notes in my NIV Study Bible, the primary definition is so clear: a cup is simply a vessel used to offer refreshment. The commentator in my study Bible pointed out two beautiful pictures of this: first, how a gracious host uses a cup to offer refreshment to a guest.  
    The second picture is of the cup the Lord offers to the godly which is filled with blessings, salvation, and an inheritance. But Scripture also makes it clear that there is a cup of judgment reserved for the wicked. 
    In the end, each person gets to choose which cup they will drink from—and live with the consequences of that choice. It is such a significant decision, and as His servant, it's one I find myself making intentionally each and every day. I hope, if you haven't already, choose the cup the LORD lovingly offers you filled with blessings, salvation, and an inheritance. 
      

    This was a bit of a heavy study, 
so we'll take the week to ponder it and answer the question:
What is my lot? 

Please know this:
You are loved.
You are not alone.
You are being lovingly prayed for.

Have Your Way by Katy Nichole


FIBER FUN
I broke down my "To Dos" into three categories:  Finish, Focus, Prep/make a kit, and Be Kind = Soft Deadlines.  FoF represents the Fields of Fancy BOM, which I'm doing with Liberty of London Tana Lawn fabrics.  
Last Week's List
 I'm gently easing my hands back into hand sewing, by only stitching on Grandchild #3's ornament.  Maybe I can even finish it! 
1.  Finish - Grandchild #3's ornament Not quite finished. As you can see by the comparisons, I did finish the Mama dinosaur’s head.  
2.  Focus
a.  sandwich the Jalapeño Placemats and experiement with Kimberbell's Blue Tiles for machine quilting. Not done.  I'm still stitching them together and need to press them.  I overestimated the amount of fabric I would need, so it's a happy surprise to know I can make a few more placemats for our aunt!  Maybe I can even make some hot pads and coasters/mug rugs!  

 

 b.  appliqué FOF hexagons Done - kind of.  I was unhappy with the original flowers, so I began anew.  This time I used appliqué glue to baste them.  So far, I like the results.  

 

 3.   Prepare/make a kit - two baby quilts Not done.  I do have one prepped from last year (Yikes!) and would like to prep another one for a baby coming in next month.  The hardest part for me is done - picking the fabrics.

4. Be kind = Soft Deadlines - which are good for my mental health!

This Week's Goals
1.  Finish - Grandchild #3's ornament 
2.  Focus
a. make progress on the placemats
 
3.   Prepare/make a kit  for the baby boy's quilt.

4. Be kind = Soft Deadlines - which are good for my mental health!


15 MINUTES TO STICH
I’m joining the Kate's 15 Minutes to Stitch' challenge at Life in Pieces  helps us to develop the habit of daily creativity.  One of my friends has trouble getting out, so we coordinate our sewing times and have our own little FaceTime sewing social!   Last month I stitched every day.  This first week of October was 6/7 days.  

LITERARY LIFE   
MAILBOX MONDAY - is a gathering place for readers to share books that they added to their shelves or eBook readers the previous week.  Some of these books were recommended by you!  Do you see your reads below?  Thank all of you for sharing!
Here's the free eBook I picked up this week from ereaderiq.com 
    I also checked out these audiobooks from Libby.  Nancy Mehl is a faith-based author and I'm loving how she combines faith with her FBI suspense books!  This series is pictured in  order of publication.

I picked up these books from my local library!  


I also picked up this book for the Latinx Book Club.

This Week's Review:
Highly Recommend
*****
In American history, few tragedies have been as consequential―and as enduringly misunderstood―as the Triangle Shirtwaist Factory fire of 1911. Long remembered as a turning point in the struggle for labor protections, Fire in the Heart of the City shows how the fire also helped transform another cornerstone of modern American life: the rise of modern charity.
Set in early twentieth-century New York, the book tells the extraordinary story of what happened when a catastrophic fire in Greenwich Village threw Adolph Ochs, the ambitious new publisher of the New York Times, and Rose Schneiderman, a defiant young labor organizer, into a momentous struggle over who should organize the city's response: a rising charity sector led by wealthy financiers and civic elites, or the reform-minded unions and activists of Lower Manhattan.

Drawing on newly released archival documents, interviews with the descendants of Times publisher Adolph Ochs and New York labor organizers, previously confidential reports, and long-overlooked private diaries and correspondence, historian and former journalist David Conrad-Pérez offers a striking new account of the disaster and its aftermath. He shows how a handful of charities on the brink of irrelevance were suddenly recast as New York's best answer to the social and economic conditions the fire laid bare―a watershed moment in the rise of modern charity and elite authority over social welfare in the United States.

In the months after the fire, the Times and its philanthropic allies joined forces to popularize the idea that social crises should be managed not by immigrant reformers, labor advocates, or neighborhood coalitions, but by a select class of elite and supposedly "scientific" charitable institutions. In doing so, they elevated a new language of expertise around poverty and public welfare that would leave a lasting mark on American civic life.A deeply researched and absorbing work of narrative history, Fire in the Heart of the City offers a major reinterpretation of one of the most important urban disasters in American history, revealing how a single catastrophe helped reshape not only the politics of labor, but also the moral and institutional foundations of modern American charity.
-  Amazon

    
I could relate deeply to David Conrad-Pérez’s Fire in the Heart of the City: The Triangle Shirtwaist Tragedy and the Origins of Modern Charity. My mother worked in a clothing factory, and many of the elitist attitudes held by those in power back then still exist today. The workers have no sway with major media outlets, so their voices are silenced; instead, as in 1911, the voices of the elite dominate the narrative. While I could use "politically correct" language in this review, I refuse to sugarcoat what happened to these immigrants or the aftermath that followed—and neither does Conrad-Pérez.
    Conrad-Pérez makes it clear that the Triangle Shirtwaist Factory fire was entirely preventable. Instead of correcting unsafe working conditions, the owners, Max Blanck and Isaac Harris, chose to lock the doors and exits, trapping the workers inside. Very few could escape via the elevator, and those who tried the stairwells found locked doors waiting for them. Consequently, 146 predominantly Jewish and Italian immigrants, trapped inside a burning building, had only two options: burn alive or jump from the windows. He doesn't hold back on what happened: those who jumped landed on fire hoses, tore through safety nets, or added to a growing pile of broken bodies—young women mostly aged between 14 and 23. They were beloved mothers, daughters, and wives, and many were the primary source of income for their families.
    The author makes a point to contrast the fate of the workers with that of the men responsible. The owners, who worked on the upper floors, managed to escape to the roof and were rescued safely. Through his research, Conrad-Pérez shows how they were indicted on manslaughter charges but ultimately acquitted. Sound familiar? Furthermore, he highlights the staggering financial injustice: while the owners paid a meager $75 per deceased employee to grieving families, their insurance company paid them $400 per casualty—meaning the owners actually turned a profit off the deaths of these broken families.
    Conrad-Pérez shows how deep the corruption really went. It was these same owners, alongside the publisher of The New York Times, Adolph Ochs, who dictated the public narrative and decided how best to assist the surviving families. As the author reveals, the families had no voice and no vote; the elitists made all the decisions. Conrad-Pérez demonstrates how these choices were based on junk science, ignorance, and class biases—and how the elite used their money and influence to establish profitable, so-called "charities" designed to maintain control and stifle protest. He also sheds light on the fact that many surviving immigrant workers were deported afterward.
    Ultimately, David Conrad-Pérez’s work would be a vital addition to required reading in our high schools and universities. In Fire in the Heart of the City, he has done what few before him managed to do: tell the truth about what happened and give a voice to the silenced.
 Thank you to NetGalley, NYU Press, author David Conrad-Pérez, for the gift of this ebook ARC. All opinions are my own.

FINDING JOY
LeeAnna's I Like on Thursdays at Not Afraid of Color helps me consistently find the joy in every life.  This week's prompt is:  What is your favorite thing about the shift from summer to fall?  Oh LeeAnna!  You found my happy place!  I love the cooler temperatures, the changing colors, perusing all the back to school supplies, and I can finally enjoy my patio again!  

I found these little bugs (?) in a spider web by my pond.

My sister sent this photo from Europe.
We must be related - 
we both like sunflowers!
 
This is Marley, my granddog.
We're babysitting and he's missing his daddy.

I think I've shared this before,
but just had to share again!

Yup.  I'm spoiled.  My husband makes me 
this coffee almost every evening.


Your comments are so appreciated! 
I read each one and will respond by email.
You can also expect a visit from me as well!
 🎶Here is a list of many of the songs🎶
I've shared on this blog.

Here are the parties I sometimes link up with:  

Sundays

Slow Sunday Stitching @ Kathy's Quilts

Sunday Salon at Readerbuzz

Stitching Stuff at Kate's Life in Pieces

Mondays

Sew and Tell at Melva Loves Scraps

What Are You Reading at The Book Date

Tuesdays

To Do Tuesday posts at Quilt Schmilt

Thursdays

I Like on Thursdays at Not Afraid of Color

Sunday, September 27, 2026

Psalm 16:5 What is our Portion? Fiber Fun, Literary Living and Finding Joy

Hello There,
    Thank you so much for popping in!  I'm looking forward to reading your thoughts on today's post.  
    Yay!  I'm celebrating my husband's first full week home after his two weeks awayThis experience was similar when he would have Temporary Duty Assignments in the military.  Back then I had my children to keep me company.  This time, I had Chloe, Chico, frequent calls from my husband as well as a few "Ama Days" with my grandchildren.  When my oldest grandson was a toddler, he named me "Ama". When they visit me, those are Ama Days.  Ama means love in English.  💖
    Last week I shared about taking a break from hand-stitching due to finger pain.  So, this week you'll see plenty of what I've been crocheting and machine sewing.  
    I sure hope you enjoy your visit!  

Take good care and, as Daddy used to say, 
"Make memories; it's later than you think."

HERE'S A WORD
As I prepped for this study, I simply highlight all the words that describe what God does for us in my Bible and make a list of them in my journal.  I'll follow the same format here. 

The Presence of the LORD

A Miktama of David.
1 Preserve me, O God,
for in You I take refuge.
2I said to the LORD, “You are my Lord;
apart from You I have no good thing.”
3As for the saints in the land,
they are the excellence
in whom all my delight resides.
4 Sorrows will multiply
to those who chase other gods.
I will not pour out their libations of blood,
or speak their names with my lips.
5 The LORD is my chosen portion and my cup;
You have made my lot secure.
6The lines of my boundary have fallen in pleasant places;
surely my inheritance is delightful.
7I will bless the LORD who counsels me;
even at night my conscience instructs me.b
8I have setc the LORD always before me.
Because He is at my right hand, I will not be shaken.
9Therefore my heart is glad and my tongue rejoices;
my body also will dwell securely.d
10For You will not abandon my soul to Sheol,
nor will You let Your Holy One see decay.e
11You have made known to me the path of life;
You will fill me with joy in Your presence,f
with eternal pleasures at Your right hand.
-        Psalm 16


   
I so enjoyed studying and learning about verse 5, especially knowing that God alone is our portion and cup. But what is a portion? According to Webster it's an individual's part or share of something and/or an indiviual's fate or fortune, one's share of good and evil. Interesting, God alone decides our part of something, as well as our fate and our share of good and evil. Like many of you, I have experienced good and evil in my life. For many years, depending on the circumstances, I would either praise Him or cry out to Him, "Why, God, why?"
    Many times He would, in His grace and mercy, show me the "why" and how He was there, either celebrating or weeping with me.  As I've aged, He shows me how my joyful/painful events have been a blessing to myself and, sometimes others.  Perhaps He does the same for you?  I have to believe He will do the same for you as well.
    Portion can also be seen as an inheiritance.  My heart raced with joy as I read this same verse in the Amplified Version:  The LORD is the portion of my inheritance, my cup [He is all I need]; You support my lot.  Then I learned the "theological interpretation" of portion  is that God Himself is our inheiritance when we accept Jesus' dying on the cross for our sins and asking Him to be the Lord of our lives!  It is then that we become fellow-heirs with Him!  (Romans 8:17; Galatians 4:7) Imagine such a gift!  God longs for us to accept the priceless, precious gift of His Son's sacrifice that we may share in the blessings of the Kingdom of God!
    Can we accept the share God has for us?  Can we accept God as our portion?  Oh my dear reader, He longs to give us so much if we only but believe on Jesus Christ!  Take that step and trust Him - in good and hard times.  Choose to recieve your portion, both physical and spiritual, as you navigate life.  It is one of the most vital decisions you will make.  
It Is Well With My Soul

Please know this:  
You are loved.  You are not alone.  You are being lovingly prayed for.

FIBER FUN
I broke down my "To Dos" into three categories:  Finish, Focus, Prep/make a kit, and Be Kind = Soft Deadlines.  FoF represents the Fields of Fancy BOM, which I'm doing with Liberty of London Tana Lawn fabrics.  
Last Week's List
1.  Finish nothing for now 
2.  Focus
a.  Jalapeño Placemats Done!  I stitched two different designs, a braided one and a patchwork/Trip Around The Worldish one.  After choosing the later, the strips were sewn together and pressed.  
b.  Grandchild #3's ornament I did not pick up Grandchild #3's cross stitch ornament at all, but I did finish a few more Christmas cowls.  

The first cowl is definitely more fallish in tone than the picture.
A friend gave me some yarn she wasn't using, 
so I decided to turn it into a cowl. 
This project is a great example of
 making up a pattern on the fly—I simply make a foundation chain 
until I'm happy with the length, 
and then I just start playing with different crochet stitches.
When I ran out of yarn, I joined the ends.
Another finished cowl.

The yarn for this cowl is I Love This Yarn by Hobby Lobby.
I had so much fun learninga new stitch with this yarn, The Drunken Granny. 

The cowl below is also crocheted with yarn from Hobby Lobby,
I Love This Yarn in Metallic Black.

c.  appliqué FOF hexagons Caring for a sweet, aging parent is a true act of love—and as many of you know, the elderly often feel cold even on warm days. I started this granny square shawl to bring a little extra warmth to a friend's mama. It's a simple project based on a pattern from my favorite prayer shawl book.  
 

This shawl is made from my new obbssion that I hinted at earlier:  Malabrigo Rio yarn in Archangel.  I think I  bought out  Apricot Yarn and Supply's stock, my go to yarn shop when we're in San Diego.  I was also wanting to get to know my local yarn shop, so I special ordered from them.  What I love about this yarn is that, yes, the dye lots are different, but they work together.  I do believe I've found my special yarn!  
3.   Prepare/make a kit - nothing for now
4. Be kind = Soft Deadlines - which are good for my mental health!


This Week's Goals  I'm gently easing my hands back into hand sewing, by only stitching on Grandchild #3's ornament.  Maybe I can even finish it! 
1.  Finish - Grandchild #3's ornament  
2.  Focus
a.  sandwich the Jalapeño Placemats and experiement with Kimberbell's Blue Tiles for machine quilting.
b.  appliqué FOF hexagons 
3.   Prepare/make a kit - two baby quilts

4. Be kind = Soft Deadlines - which are good for my mental health!


15 MINUTES TO STICH
I’m joining the Kate's 15 Minutes to Stitch' challenge at Life in Pieces  helps us to develop the habit of daily creativity.  I did crochet every day this week...perhaps a bit too much.  It's time to find a happy balance between hand stitching, crochet and machine sewing.  Thus far, this month has been 100%.  Between all these fiber arts, it seems I'm making progress of some sort every day.   

LITERARY LIFE   
MAILBOX MONDAY - is a gathering place for readers to share books that they added to their shelves or eBook readers the previous week.  Some of these books were recommended by you!  Do you see your reads below?  Thank all of you for sharing!
Here's the free eBooks I picked up this week from ereaderiq.com 

And from Libby:

This Week's Reviews
Highly Recommend
*****
In this wise and warm debut novel, an Italian American grandmother, daughter, and granddaughter all named after the Roman myth of the Three Graces find their lives—and their secrets—colliding when, after years apart, they come to live under the same roof.
Graziella, a ninety-six-year-old former nun, spends her days running the parish’s food kitchen, convinced it is her responsibility to keep everyone fed in their working-class New York neighborhood. Her daughter, Grace, a respected psychology professor, appears accomplished and composed, yet finds herself unmoored as her personal life falters. Ella—Graziella’s granddaughter and Grace’s daughter—is weary of defending her vegan diet and anti-capitalistic lifestyle; blind to her own brilliance, she longs, above all, for a place to belong. Living together again, the three Graces reckon with the distances that have shaped them, and with what it means, at last, to be fully known.
Populated by unforgettable characters, The Three Graces of Pearl Street explores the delicate balance between tradition and modernity, and the quiet courage it takes to move through the world with true grace. - Goodreads

At first I thought The Three Graces of Pearl Street by Elizabeth Wellington Rollins was about three graces as in blessings or kindness.  But it was about three generations of Graziellas - three women.  I so enjoy books in which women are the protagonists - and now to have three!  I was already sold.  It was captivating to have a window into these lady's minds and experience the various trials and joys through each generation's eyes. The flow, the conversations and the character devlopment were right on target.  

Rollin's writing style was such that this reader was pulled into her fictional world so much so that I could see the settings and experience the aroma of delicious Italian dishes.  Highly Recommend.  

 Thank you to NetGalley, Atria Books and author Elizabeth Wellington Rollins, for the gift of this ebook ARC. All opinions are my own.

FINDING JOY
LeeAnna's I Like on Thursdays at Not Afraid of Color helps me consistently find the joy in every life.  This week's prompt is: What is the highlight of our week?  That's easy - my husband came home!  I cooked him a roast dinner and we talked - a lot.  :)  While he was gone, I talked to the dogs.  Now I'm adjusting to having someone actually answer me!  

While giving my hands a sewing break this week, 
I lived vicariously via these Instagram accounts 
and their posts featuring EPP.
They are so inspiring!



In keeping with the EPP theme, I throughly enjoyed Peggy in Washington's Quilts and Adventures.  She is recreating her EPP wedding quilt made by her grandmother.  I was wowed by her thoughtful idea.   

During a visit to San Diego, I decided to try a brand-new crochet hook brand: Tulip. I started with just a single hook, but after spending an evening using it, I was completely hooked (pun intended)!  The very next day, I returned to Apricot Yarn & Supply to buy the full set pictured below. I couldn't be happier with them! They allow me to crochet for longer stretches with minimal hand fatigue, especially when stitching with premium yarn shop purchases like the one pictured below.

I love happy mail from Apricot Yarn and Supplies!
This beautiful yarn is Malabrigo Rios's color is Archangel.
Your comments are so appreciated! 
I read each one and will respond by email.
You can also expect a visit from me as well!
 🎶Here is a list of many of the songs🎶
I've shared on this blog.

Here are the parties I sometimes link up with:  

Sundays

Slow Sunday Stitching @ Kathy's Quilts

Sunday Salon at Readerbuzz

Stitching Stuff at Kate's Life in Pieces

Mondays

Sew and Tell at Melva Loves Scraps

What Are You Reading at The Book Date

Tuesdays

To Do Tuesday posts at Quilt Schmilt

Thursdays

I Like on Thursdays at Not Afraid of Color